Changed my life
"Your series has literally changed my life. So many times I’ll stop myself and think “what would Alisa say?” You just opened my mind to how we’re not one-dimensional and there is so much going on behind what is said."
— Penina
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Every word was GOLD
"I loved the classes. I couldn’t wait, and especially enjoyed the “ready to use immediately” skills each week! It wasn’t just talk but practical ready-to-use skills, every word was GOLD."
My husband loved the changes in our relationship
"We always got along but we didn’t have a deep connection. My husband loved the changes in our relationship. We now have a deeper connection and understand each other better, with more respect."
— Mimi
I feel more rejuvenated in my relationship and better equipped in my “relationship toolkit.”
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After a stressful year of COVID, I was feeling worn down and resentful. I felt like I had to nag to get my husband’s help around the house, and neither of us had energy to enjoy spending time together.
I felt like I had more pleasant and more effective ways of communicating my wants and needs. Practicing the skills really forced me to stop and reframe my desires instead of just complaining. And a lot of times (though not always), my husband was quicker and happier to respond. I feel more rejuvenated in my relationship and better equipped in my “relationship toolkit.” Instead of just reacting with my old frustrations,"
— Nechama S.
We are more in love now
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“We spent too many years on raising our kids and neglecting our own relationship When I practiced the skills, my husband responded by wanting to spend more time with me and even initiating it! We are more in love now, and respect each other despite our differences. ”
— D.R.
I feel so cared-for and loved
“I have gained TREMENDOUSLY from your class... BH my marriage is the most beautiful thing and we are so happy.
I feel so so cared for and loved, and my husband feels respected.
I can't thank you enough!”
— T.A.
It's unreal how much I see my marriage gained
“Just wanted to tell you it's been a few weeks now after practicing all the skills.. it's unreal how much I see my marriage gained from this! Cannot thank you enough!”
— E.R.
I have seen more changes in the past few weeks than in all the work we have ever done.
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“We have gone for counseling in the past and even after months of counseling I have seen more changes in the past few weeks than in all the work we have ever done. He actually bought me so many gifts this Chanuka and I don’t think he ever bought me gifts for Chanuka before.”
— G. M.
Even in a great marriage, there's so many things I didn't know!
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"This course is such an eye opener! Even in a great marriage, there's so many things that I didn't know! These things make such a difference! I have now all the tools in my head, for when I need it. so many interesting information! I really gained a lot! Thank you so much!"
— R.Z.
— S.B.
I'm really growing & enjoying my marriage in ways I never thought possible!!
"Thanks for this terrific course. Such wonderful, simple, easy-to-implement practical actions and mindset shifts that make the same actions and interactions in the house more positive, productive, and pleasant!
I'm really growing & enjoying my empty nesting marriage in ways I never thought possible!!"
— M.R.
I watched in amazement how much just me working affected my husband
“My marriage was stale and full of resentment and did not look like a marriage to me . I did the homework and watched in amazement how much just me working affected my husband, which in turn gave me the energy to keep giving and keep receiving .”
— N.O.
I was amazed at how big of an impact these little tiny changes can make in a relationship
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I have a wonderful husband B"H, but there was conflict. I was also looking for a deeper connection and way to communicate better with my husband.
In the beginning, as soon as I started implementing the first skill , I saw a change almost immediately. My husband responded positively. I saw that he was more open to helping me take care of things, when he felt more appreciated and respected.
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I was amazed at how simple the skills were, yet how big of an impact these little tiny changes can make in a relationship.
— N.H.
I’m finding the skills and tips you are sharing to be so helpful and life-changing
“ I just want you to know how special this class is. Being married 30 plus years, I can say that there are so many wonderful parts of our marriage B”H, but there are also so many areas that over the years I wished I knew how to change or improve, whether in myself or my husband. There were many times when I felt that it was my husband who should “change”, but it’s so true that if you want to change the world, start with yourself!
I’m finding the skills and tips you are sharing to be so helpful and life-changing. My feelings about certain things, and my attitude as well, are shifting in a certain direction that enables me to grow in my relationship with my husband. Even though each couple’s situation will be a little different, the skills you are teaching can probably help everyone in their interpersonal relationships and especially in their marriage. .”
— Rivky
We enjoy each,other much more and have a warmer , closer and more fun filled relationship.
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"After taking this course I feel like my husband and I are much closer emotionally. I feel like since I have been showing him more respect, I feel more respect towards him. He also feels more respected from me so he becomes more giving and closer to me , which makes me very happy. It’s a win win situation for all.
We enjoy each,other much more and have a warmer , closer and more fun filled relationship. Thank you Alisa !"
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I empower Jewish women be change agents in their marriage, bringing deeper connection and emotional intimacy to their relationships through hands-on skills and mindset shifts. Based on the Torah concept of Mashpia/Mekabel.
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